Ok, maybe I'm the a@@hole but a couple weeks ago I let 2 other drummers use my kit and now it's all 'off'. I told them both that they could use them under the pretense that they didn't move any drums around. I have a tama kit with omni-sphere tom holders. For you that have them you know that they can sometimes be a bitch to adjust. So they both proceeded in shifting things around. Removing drums and boom arms. I understand using other peoples gear can be tough but don't make it your own for your 45 minute set. Geez. Am I in the wrong for being pissed? It's taken me, literally, years to get it to where I am uber comfortable and now these jackasses screw everything up.