The more focused you are the more comfortable you'll get with it. Practice rudiments, grooves, fill ideas, solos, and anything else you can possibly think of. I don't know what your practice schedule is like but, try to get at least 7-10 hours a week of working with the click and don't play anything, outside of band rehearsals, without one. Also, if you have any way of recording yourself, even if it's with a boom box, do it. The tape never lies and you'll hear any and all of your timing inconsistencies. You don't need a quality recording, you just need to be able to hear what you were playing.
"If the goal is for me to give up my reality for your reality, then the goal is for me to give up my self for your self--a goal I have to reject."